You see, it is very simple. When we are little infants, we are helpless.. Even if we have to go to the other room – somebody has to lift us and put us there. We can’t even go to the toilet. Somebody has to take us there. We can’t eat. Somebody has to feed us. During the end too, when we become old and helpless and fall sick – again the same thing happens. In between, there is a period, when we really think or imagine that we are under control. Actually, we are not under control. If we realize this, then we have surrendered.