If you move with someone who’s mind is calm and quiet, then that calmness slowly comes into your mind after some time. Seeing a person who has no iota of self in him, who is as free as the wind, free as the bird, slowly your mind begins to change. It takes time. He (Babaji) himself used to say, ‘The seeds have been planted, it has been sown but no seed will become a tree and give fruit in three days, it takes its own time.’